One of the more provocative BDSM activities is the concept of the ‘sex slave’. For the uninitiated, this term may conjure up images that do not correspond to the consensual and negotiated reality of BDSM relationships. A ‘sex slave’ in the BDSM...
In the nuanced and deeply personal world of BDSM, the contract is a fundamental tool that embodies the power dynamic between a Dominant and a submissive. Over the years, I have crafted a variety of contracts for dozens of slaves, pets, subs and littles who applied to...
We all know that sexuality is a complex and deeply personal aspect of human life that encompasses a whole spectrum of desires, fantasies and forms of expression. This includes the realm of “sexual perversions” – a variety of non-normative sexual...
The world of human sexuality offers a wide spectrum of expressions, experiences and terms. Within this colorful spectrum, the term “vanilla sex” often pops up, especially when contrasted with the colorful world of BDSM. But what exactly is vanilla sex, and...
Few rituals have such a deep symbolic meaning as the wearing of collars by a sub, slave or owned object. At its core, the collar transcends mere aesthetics or fashion. Instead, it is a powerful testament to commitment, trust and the intricate dance of dominance and...
