BDSM is so vast and there are so many roles that one can have. And one figure always stands out for many (and yor me) – a playful, mischievous dynamic that is characterized by its cheekiness and rebellion: the role of the “brat”. But what exactly...
One of the more provocative BDSM activities is the concept of the ‘sex slave’. For the uninitiated, this term may conjure up images that do not correspond to the consensual and negotiated reality of BDSM relationships. A ‘sex slave’ in the BDSM...
In the nuanced and deeply personal world of BDSM, the contract is a fundamental tool that embodies the power dynamic between a Dominant and a submissive. Over the years, I have crafted a variety of contracts for dozens of slaves, pets, subs and littles who applied to...
We all know that sexuality is a complex and deeply personal aspect of human life, encompassing a whole range of desires, fantasies and expressions. This includes the realm of “sexual perversions” – a variety of non-normative sexual interests that...
The world of human sexuality offers a wide spectrum of expressions, experiences and terms. Within this colorful spectrum, the term “vanilla sex” often pops up, especially when contrasted with the colorful world of BDSM. But what exactly is vanilla sex, and...
